1. Introduction

Everything I never told you has won first at 2014 Amazon best annual book list, it explores identity crisis, life achievement, race, gender, family and personal road. And with the development of times, people give more attention on children growth, they start to know the important role the family plays and try to keep their eyes on family more. However, it is reported that the teenage suicide rate in children has risen rapidly. It is really time for us to understand deeply and prevent from happening, so I write this paper.

1.1 Need for the study

Everyone is born as a paper, influenced by the environment , and then grows up to a man of society. However, family is the first place a person contacts, which helps to shape a person#8217;s character, cultivate one#8217;s consciousness, and build one#8217;s outlook on values of life. So we can learn the importance of an original family. According to research, the original family affects an individual both on personal development and on mental health. Therefore, in original family, many things may influence children, such as parents#8217; respective character, interaction among parents and children and so on, they all leave a mark on one#8217;s growth.

Family psychology is based on system view, and aims to analyze feeling, thought, and behavior in relationships between family members. This is the production of times, and it also draw from science statistics and mental psychology. The development of family system theory has experienced two historical periods: the first period is about the interaction between family members; the second is affected by feminism, constructivism and other theories. Family psychology takes the method of combing quantitatively and qualitatively, analyze the construction, environment, control and development of family, and achieve good result.

Family relationship is the important part of social relationship. Now under the social background of literature revolution and view renew, whether people can have strong mental endurance and coordinate relationships among family members is available for us to attach importance to.

1.2 Research purpose

The family occupies a unique position in every person#8217;s life, whether you are a student or a man of society. While leaving the greatest impact on one#8217;s life is the native family. Every one only has once, and how to live a good life is decided at the beginning.

This paper is aimed to discuss the impact that family leave on children growth, taking Lydia#8217;s tragedy as an example, analyze the reason of Lydia#8217;s tragedy, and try to help people circumvent adverse effect.

2. Literature review